Our worth of being on the planet at this time cannot be judged as we are all worthy and essential to being here now.
– Unknown –
The issue of worthiness may come up in several areas of our lives, as we ask, often unconsciously, whether we are worthy of success, love, happiness, and countless other things. In the end it all comes down to one thing: our willingness to claim our space in this life as humans on this planet. When we accept our divinity, we no longer question whether we are worthy, because we know that we are meant to be here to fulfill a particular purpose. By understanding this purpose you will feel worthy and deserving of everything wonderful and good.
Here is a practical example for worthiness or how unworthiness often shows up in our lives.
Discovering your subconscious beliefs about money.
Statements like, “I don’t need millions of dollars and material things, but I would like an okay job and just enough to pay my bills” are not really serving us.
If you had a choice between having $150,000 or $200 million, why wouldn’t you take the $200 million? If you really feel like $200 million will disrupt your life and you don’t want to experience the emotions and decisions that come with this level of prosperity, then that’s okay. However, the real question is this:
What beliefs are causing you to make that decision?
When someone states that they just want enough to get by, it indicates worthiness issues. The person who says this is usually surrounded by co-dependent people they are taking care of. They make sure everyone’s needs are met – except their own.
It’s like people who say a car just takes you from point A to point B, or question why they would pay $50 more for a hotel room with an ocean view instead of the street view. They are usually coming from lack consciousness.
The Course in Miracles teaches, all decisions come from either fear or love. Deciding you are worthy of the ocean view is a love decision. Choosing the other is based on the fear of spending that $50 and therefore believing in lack.
Some advice on how to improve you worthiness.
1) Observe your thoughts about your money, relationships and success. Are you putting yourself down, telling yourself that you don’t need this or find reasons why you can’t have it? Become aware of your thoughts, believes and attitudes.
2) Be willing to change your old believes and patterns. Look at your life and ask yourself, is this an expression of my worthiness or does it reflect lack? Think about where you will be in a year from now if you do not change and where you could be if you commit to changing your thoughts and patterns.
3) Think about how your life would be once you’ve changed. What would it be and feel like if you allow yourself to stay in the nicer hotel room? How would you walk and talk if you buy the outfit you really like rather than the one that’s on sale? Daydream about being prosperous, being comfortable being rich and successful and imagine what you would look like if you would be adored and loved by your partner.
4) Only focus on the design aspect of your dream and creation. Stop yourself from trying to figure out where the money, partner, and career would come from. The Universe has a much better chance to do this for you than you could ever imagine. When you can trust the process of life you will be and have what you desire.
You deserve to be happy in all areas of your life and I am your greatest cheerleader.
With all my Love,
Rev. Gabrielle Orr
Author; Akashic Record Teacher and Consultant